Dear [Name],
I am writing this letter to apologize for my hostile actions. I am deeply sorry for my behavior and the hurtful words I said. I understand that my actions were inappropriate and unacceptable, and I take full responsibility for them.
I realize that I have caused you a great deal of distress and I am truly sorry for that. I understand that my actions have had a negative impact on our relationship, and I regret that. I want to assure you that I will do my best to make sure this doesn't happen again.
I understand that my actions were wrong and I am committed to changing my behavior. I am aware that I need to be more mindful of my words and actions and I will do my best to be more respectful in the future. I am also willing to take the necessary steps to repair the damage that has been done.
I understand that it will take time for you to forgive me and I am willing to do whatever it takes to earn your trust again. I am willing to listen to your concerns and work with you to make things right. I am also willing to take part in any counseling or other services that might help us to rebuild our relationship.
Once again, I am truly sorry for my hostile actions and the hurt I have caused you. I hope that you can find it in your heart to forgive me and that we can move forward together.
Sincerely,
[Your Name]